Monday, June 26, 2023
My Simple Daybook vol. III
Closing Notes
Friday, June 23, 2023
Catholic Holy Cards: What to do with them all?
"How do you pray with your holy cards?"
That's a great question! Besides using them as bookmarks, holy cards can be a tremendous spiritual aid. I really like to use ones that have my favorite prayers, quotes, and images on them when I'm praying at church or sitting in quiet meditation at home.
I keep the bulk of my holy card collection in a box from my Little Flower's Girls Group growing up. The box was part of our project for the virtue of orderliness. I have to chuckle a little bit because, while the box keeps my holy cards all in one place and is not visibly a mess, the inside of the box is a little chaotic. But there is a method to the madness.
"...I beheld His body bruised and beaten to the very ribs, so that His ribs could be seen; and what was still more bitter, when the scourge was raised, His very flesh was furrowed by the thongs. ... my Son stood thus, all bloody, all torn, so that no soundness could be found in Him nor any spot to scourge..."
Venerable Fulton Sheen also wrote in his book, "The Life of Christ" speaking of Our Lord,
"He will find Himself without a friend in the world, an outcast on a hill, with mobs shouting His death, and His flesh hanging from Him like purple rags."
So you see, this image of Our Lord could be very accurate and I find it so helpful in meditation on Our Lord's suffering and passion. Now to the praying part!! I have this picture opposite The Litany of Humility. A great pairing, right? (You can find both of these holy cards here!)
Wednesday, June 21, 2023
Goodbye Social Media, Hello TAN Books
Hello, my dear readers,
I hope you're doing well! Here I am again after a long silence. One of these days, I'll get regular about posting! (Right?π ) Anyway, you may recall that I've been trying to keep my social media time in check for a while now. (I blogged about it here and here.) Well, as much as I tried and hoped to balance my time and maintain self-control, I still struggled with endless scrolling. Yes, there were so many good Catholic quotes, adorable knitting patterns, and lovely inspiration, but I was overall being harmed by my time on social media. Along with the good posts, there were so many occasions to be accosted by language. When scrolling reels, who knows how many times you'll hear curse words or, even worse, God's name used in vain. It really is upsetting to the soul. Not only that, but it's very hard not to fall into the comparison game whether that be wanting all the beautiful yarn or desiring a life and vocation that is not your own. It's so important to focus on the here and now; what's right in front of us. I was seeing all of these lovely posts from wives, mothers, and homemakers, but that is not my calling right now. Right now, I need to focus on cultivating virtue in myself towards God, my family, and my friends; not the husband I don't have.
So with that, I've finally decided to deactivate my Instagram accounts. (Facebook will remain to stay connected to family and friends.) The accounts are not completely deleted in case I would like to make the time to come back to them, but in my mind, they're just as good as deleted for now. Instead, I would like to make more time for prayer, reading, work, knitting, and blogging here! This blog has always been my favorite way to share experiences and thoughts. I've just wasted so much time trying to keep up with trends that I don't set aside the longer block of time required to post here.
But now that I don't have Instagram, I wanted to share one of my latest endeavors here with you!!
Introducing my very own TAN books Affiliate Link!! π
For every purchase made using the link above, I earn a small commission at no extra cost to you! This is a small way to support my endeavors and adventures at home for the rest of this summer. (That will be changing this fall; stay tuned for more announcements!) So if you enjoy reading great Catholic literature, both classic and new, please prayerfully consider using my link! Thank you!!
My old blog, The Life of a Homeschooler, was all about my homeschooling adventures and learning. However, for me, homeschooling never stops even after you graduate. I'm constantly learning, especially about my faith and I want to have the best books possible for doing that! I've read TAN Books throughout my life and schooling. They have a wonderful selection for early readers through the learned adult. These books will help you grow in your faith and spirituality while keeping your mind and imagination engaged!
In the future, whenever I post about the TAN Books I'm reading or sharing in a gift guide, I'll share this affiliate link so stay tuned for lots of great Catholic literature content!
Thank you so much for being here, friend! I hope to share lots more wonderful Catholic content in the very near future without any of the added stress of social media. Is there anything in particular you would like to read about here? Please do let me know in the comments below!
In cordibus Jesu et Mariae,
Sarah
Friday, May 5, 2023
Veiling in the Presence of Our Lord and God: Repost
"Don’t let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith and in purity." (1 Timothy 4:12)
(This is a post I wrote as a guest article in 2019 on the blog, "Rambles with a Souther Gal". I've now been veiling for 14 years and blogging for almost 9!)
My initial reason for veiling...
My family and I started attending Children's Eucharistic Adoration when I was about 8 years old. This was when we saw other moms and girls veiling. One of the moms made veils and made them available for women to take, so my mom, sister, and I each got one. I don't exactly remember the initial reason we started veiling, but my friends were doing it and I was told it was a way to give reverence to God.
Since then, I have come to a good understanding of why I veil. As I came to understand the history and meaning behind it, veiling became a personal devotion. I have been blessed to share these reasons with others and I'm very happy when girls ask me about it.
What happened during Vatican II??
"Contrary to what many believe, Vatican II never did away with this tradition. It remains a beautiful devotion whereby each woman, symbolizing the Bride of Christ, the Church, wears a veil as a visible reminder of the perfect submission of the Church to the loving rule of Christ."
"An article in The Atlanta Journal of June 21, 1969, titled “Women Required to Cover Head, Vatican Insists,” stated: “A Vatican official says there has been no change, as reported, in the Roman Catholic rule that women cover their head in church. The Rev. Annibale Bugnini, secretary of the New Congregation for Divine Worship, said the reports stemmed from a misunderstanding of a statement he made at a news conference in May. Bugnini stated: ‘The rule has not been changed. It is a matter of general discipline.’”
However, the 1983 Code of Canon Law, currently in force, does not contain a requirement that women cover their heads in church. As Cardinal Burke, Prefect of the Supreme Apostolic Signatura, stated in a private letter: "The wearing of a chapel veil for women is not required when women assist at the Holy Mass according to the Ordinary Form of the Roman Rite. It is, however, the expectation that women who assist at the Mass according to the Extraordinary Form cover their heads, as was the practice at the time that the 1962 Missale Romanum was in force. It is not, however, a sin to participate in the Holy Mass according to the Extraordinary Form without a veil."
Just as the Church does not mandate that every person pray the Rosary, neither does she mandate that every woman wear a veil. This does not mean, however, that either is not a worthy devotion. On the contrary, these devotions are pleasing to God when done out of love for Him." ~Veils by Lily
Veiling is making a comeback.
With the resurgence of the Traditional Latin Mass (often called the Extraordinary Form), veiling has made a comeback as well. But the Latin Mass is not the only place you may see women veiling. Many women and girls have started wearing the veil at the Novus Ordo Masses (The 'New Order' which is most often celebrated in the vernacular language.)
This is because more and more people are realizing that veiling is not just a rule or fashion trend that belongs to a certain form of the Mass but instead is a beautiful tradition that shows reverence for our Eucharistic Lord who is truly present at the Mass, no matter which form. Maybe the resurgence of the veil is due to an increase in the realization that Jesus is truly and completely present in His body, blood, soul, and divinity on the altar!
Contrary to the stereotype, veils are not old-fashioned or just for those who want to cling to the past. Veils are worn by women young and old to show reverence to Our Lord Who is with us the same yesterday, today, and forever!
What is the importance of wearing the veil?
There are many reasons women wear a veil in the presence of the Eucharist. I would like to highlight (in no particular order) some that I find very important and inspirational.
1. Reverence.
When we wear the veil, we use an outward sign to reveal an interior realization. Jesus is truly present in the Blessed Sacrament and we adore Him! The veil is a sign that we acknowledge that there is something greater than ourselves here; namely our God, King, and Lord.
2. Modesty.
A woman's hair is her crown of beauty! We are humbling ourselves before our Lord and God when we veil in His presence because we are covering up our own beauty. The veil should point others' attention to God. The veil is an outward reminder of humility and God's presence while hopefully being a reminder against vanity as well.
3. Submission.
The veil is a sign of obedience and submission; submission to Christ and His Church. Just as a wife submits in love to her husband, so the Church, as the bride of Christ, submits to Him. A married couple is an image of Christ and His Church so the veil on a woman is a sign of the Church's submission to Christ.
"And the nature of this submission is one of love, not repression - who wouldn't submit to Him Who loves her unto death?" ~Veils by Lily
This is why a woman veils at her wedding as well. The wedding veil shows willing and loving submission and devotion to her husband. The bride submits to his protection and guidance. When we wear the veil in the presence of the Eucharist, we should have an interior disposition of submission to God's protection and guidance.
4. Sacred.
Have you ever noticed that special sacred vessels in the church are veiled?
Tabernacle Veil
Ciborium Veil
Humeral Veil
Women too are sacred vessels. Women are blessed to be able to carry an amazing gift of God inside of them, life! God has given women a special gift to be able to conceive and carry children within her. Someone once described the amazing moment of conception as "the breath of God moment." This really is accurate as God breathes life into the soul of the new human. Women are privileged to be able to carry life inside of them and therefore are sacred vessels of God's gift. In this way, the veil is a great sign of dignity inherent to a woman.
All of these reasons can really be summed up in the virtue of humility. We do not wear the veil to say "I am holier than thou." Quite the contrary. When we veil, we realize our littleness, our sinful human nature and we are so grateful to God that He should bless us, undeservingly, with the gift of His presence in the Eucharist. Ultimately, the veil means nothing if we do not have the interior disposition of humility to go along with the outward sign.
What is the significance of the different colors?
Traditionally, unmarried women wore white or lighter colors while married women wore black or darker colors. There certainly are no hard and fast rules though. Veils come in many beautiful colors and styles. Blue is a wonderful color for Marian feast days, violet (or purple) for Advent and Lent, or even pink for Gaudete and Laetare Sundays! π In parishes where few women veil, sometimes women want to wear something that blends in with their hair.
I want to encourage you...
Have you thought about wearing a veil in the presence of the Blessed Sacrament? Maybe you've felt the call for a long time now or maybe this is all totally new to you or maybe you used to wear one and have stopped. In any case, I would like to encourage you to try veiling!! Even if there aren't many women at your Mass who veil, your example can be powerful.
Once my mom, sister, and I started veiling, not only at Eucharistic Adoration but at Sunday Mass, some other moms and their daughters started veiling as well. Please don't be worried about what others will think of you. Ultimately, God's opinion is the only one that matters. He knows your heart and will reward you for your efforts of reverence and humility.
The veil is not a sign of weakness, pride, or slavery. It is a beautiful reminder of the True Presence of Our Lord in the Eucharist, His blessings to us as women, and where our true glory comes from!
Dear sisters in Christ, "Be not afraid!"
Where can I get a veil?
The first place to check would be your parish bookstore or gift shop. They'll often have a simple "starter veil."
Here are some websites that carry beautiful veils for you to look at!
Veils by Lily
Evintage Veils
Filia Dei Veils
Rosa Mystica Boutique
I hope and pray you've found this information helpful and maybe you've found a new veil you'd like to get from some of the resources above! I'd love to hear about your veiling experience! Please do comment below! Where do you like to get your veils?
Sarah
Tuesday, March 7, 2023
A little Pinterest closet perusal and some life ramblings...
Hello lovelies,
I don't exactly know where to start with this post so I pray you to bear with me. Thank you!
I was scrolling through my Pinterest clothing board when I had some thoughts race through my mind and I wanted to share them with you. I've pinned these and other outfits that I'll showcase in this post over many months and years.
When I began to look through these outfits, dreams, ambitions, and aspirations came in a flood. You see, I usually save outfits that will serve a purpose whether that be for work or play, study or social. I've been having a tumultuous time of things trying to figure out what's next in my life. Where do I go? What do I do? Who am I? (I know, so dramatically deep, Sarah.)
Looking through these outfits reminded me of some of my aspirations and inspirations. Would you like to be let in on a few? Sweet!
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